Funeral feud

Family frozen in funeral feud

May 29, 20262 min read

Published in Coffs Coast News of the Area on 29 May 2026.

Matthew passes away in hospital at the age of 80 years after a short battle with an aggressive form of cancer. He is survived by his wife, Wendy and their daughter, Penny.

The medical practitioner, responsible for Matthew’s medical care prior to his death, completes the form required to notify the Registrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages, listing the cause of death. The form also states that Matthew did not die in circumstances where the death was “not the reasonably expected outcome of a health-related procedure”.

Shortly after Matthew’s death, Wendy contacts the State Coroner and requests the transfer of Matthew’s body to a facility for forensic examination on the basis that she disputes the cause of death, claiming that he was killed “intentionally” and with “premeditation” by the doctors attending on him at the hospital.

The State Coroner declines Wendy’s request.

Penny wishes to make funeral arrangements for Matthew, but after meeting with the funeral director, is advised that Wendy’s consent is required.

Wendy withholds consent.

Matthew’s body is stored in refrigeration and a storage fee of $100 a day is charged.

Penny makes an application to the Supreme Court, seeking the release of Matthew’s body, for the purposes of cremation, interment and the making of funeral arrangements.

A year after Matthew’s death, a Supreme Court judge decides the application.

The Court hears Wendy’s allegations regarding the cause of Matthew’s death and Penny’s competing wishes, for Matthew’s body to be cremated “so as to honour him and his life in a dignified way”.

Wendy provides no medical or scientific evidence in support of her allegations.

Ultimately, the Court makes orders, registering Matthew’s death, granting power to Penny to make arrangements regarding the cremation of his remains and granting her the power to proceed with the administration of his estate.

The Court also orders that Wendy is to pay Penny’s legal costs, if there are insufficient funds in Matthew’s estate to do so.

If you have a request for a Hypothetical, call Manny Wood on (02) 66 487 487 or email [email protected].

This fictional column is not legal advice.


Manny Wood is the Principal Solicitor at TB Law, Coffs Harbour's longest-established law firm. He holds Accredited Specialist status in Wills and Estates, a credential awarded by the Law Society of NSW to solicitors who demonstrate the highest level of knowledge and skill in their area of practice. 

Manny is also a member of the NSW Law Society Elder Law Advisory Committee and a commissioned Notary Public. 

Through his long-running Hypotheticals column, he has spent years making legal concepts accessible to the Coffs Coast community in plain, practical language.

Manny Wood

Manny Wood is the Principal Solicitor at TB Law, Coffs Harbour's longest-established law firm. He holds Accredited Specialist status in Wills and Estates, a credential awarded by the Law Society of NSW to solicitors who demonstrate the highest level of knowledge and skill in their area of practice. Manny is also a member of the NSW Law Society Elder Law Advisory Committee and a commissioned Notary Public. Through his long-running Hypotheticals column, he has spent years making legal concepts accessible to the Coffs Coast community in plain, practical language.

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